oh how i wish i could get away with that FlaChef.....frankly she does plan most of it, but then i have to hear about it, and then plans change and i have to hear about it all again.... I think the ladies must get some sort of high out of planning weddings and talking about planning weddings, that us men just don't get....i know i don't get it....for me the excitment will be that wonderful day....i don't get excited about the planning parts....oh well....